1. Why does he do it?
A great deal has been written on this subject. No-one really knows, if I
did I'd be a rich woman! All social groups of men are affected. Perhaps it
is genetic. Perhaps his mother wanted a girl, and kept telling him so. Maybe
he was always brought up with girls, and was conditioned to behave like them.
Perhaps satin and velvet are just more snuggly than denim and wool! Probably
none of the above are conclusive in themselves, it is a combination of factors.
Think of the conflict that religion or race have caused, through ignorance.
When we stop to think, we know that as with belief or skin colour, many shades
are valid. We are none of us 100% male or female. Women are usually about
10% male, and have hormones of the opposite sex both naturally, and from
the food we eat. The opposite is also true. One example is that some women
have more or stronger hairs on their bodies than others or always wear trousers,
but are no less women. Some men eat more foods like tofu, which contains
a lot of female hormones, or are really good at knitting, but are of course
no less men. It is perfectly possible for a person to be born 60% male, 40%
female inside (or even 50-50) without being gay or a freak
2. Can I stop him? 7.
Will he ever give it up? No, he will probably try hard go along with your
wishes, but he cannot help it, it is part of him.Well you could, but only
temporarily. The chances are, you will only make it a big guilty secret.
Then neither of you will be happy, and the issue will be unresolved. There
is increasing medical evidence that some men really can have a female brain
in a male body. A tiny area in the centre of the brain concerned with gender
identity (not sex) has been proven to be small in females and those who want
to look like them, but large in males. It will therefore be emotionally important
to him when he dresses, to feel real as a woman for a time by wearing makeup,
false breasts and something to tuck away any masculine bits. But he definitely
can't stop himself, even if he promises to, so don't try to make him if you
love him, as it is cruel.
3. Can't he have his
femininity through me? Have I not been as feminine as I can? I'm sure you
have been exactly as you should be. Surely if you weren't feminine enough
he wouldn't want to be with you in the first place, and I'm sure he isn't
planning to leave unless you want him to! You have a subconscious fear here
of inadequacy, but don't worry. You have absolutely nothing to blame yourself
for, I do promise you! You must have unconsciously liked certain feminine
qualities in him when you met, and there's nothing wrong in that. You know
him better than anyone. If your husband was a famous actor and wore makeup
to look good in the colour supplements, would that be down to the way you
behave? Wouldn't other women be turned on by him, seeing him wearing makeup
and strange clothes in another context? And what right has anyone to judge
you for someone else's behaviour?
4. Should I stop him
or encourage it? Tell him exactly how you feel, calmly and slowly. You may
feel frustrated because your life seems no longer safe and as you expected.
Restore control by learning that crossdressing is not a threat to your relationship,
in fact it can strengthen it. Communicate honestly and both try to compromise,
explore facts and feelings, rather than argue. Be prepared to listen carefully
to what he has to say.
5. Do I tell others
before they find out? You can tell your best friend or counsellor in confidence,
but not family. Discuss this with your husband. Ultimately he will benefit
from telling close friends and family, but it won't help either of you if
he is suddenly front-page gossip, as you might rightly treat a child molester!
6. Should I leave him
for a while? This would be counter-productive. It would put off either of
you coming to terms with the issue, sow mistrust and make your husband feel
like an unloved criminal. It won't stop him dressing in the long term. If
he has lied to you about crossdressing, it is to protect your feelings, and
shows he really cares about you - surely not a reason for you to think of
leaving him, but a cry for your support!
8. Does the desire to
crossdress become stronger? It can do, but usually it is there to begin with.
When it is no longer repressed and an outlet is provided, it normally increases
for a while then drops back to a much lesser level. Remember, crossdressing
is still a hobby, not a slippery slope into changing sex - he will never
he will never be a woman, he can't contemplate all the pain and inconvenience
that a trans-sexual endures. He just feels the compulsion to dress as a woman
occasionally.
9. Are transvestites
gay? About 1 in 10 men are gay. About 1 in 100 men crossdress. There is no
higher proportion of gay transvestites than amongst any other group of men!
(Femininity in a man is quite different from the loud but small minority
effeminate OTT gay drag queens, in fact most gays are indistinguishable from
other men, and heartily disapprove of transvestites for being "straight".)
10. Do I allow him to
crossdress in his own home? Why not, it is the safest place for Melissa.
Later on there are many safe clubs where "she" can meet others,
wives are always welcome too.
11. Are men becoming
more feminine? I think there is some truth in this, but give me that anytime,
rather than their obsession with war, cars and football! I think it would
be more true to say they are becoming more civilised.
The first time I saw
my husband dressed was before we were married and we had planned an evening
especially for that. When it actually came to it he was more nervous than
I was, and I didn't find it too bad, but definitely thought I could help
him to look better. Now - about seven years on from that (we have been married
for five of those years) I help him with outfits and give him advice on how
to look. As far as relating to him when he is dressed I talk to him in exactly
the same way and treat him the same. The only thing I wouldn't want to do
is make love while he is dressed, though many women like to, and it isn't
a problem because he doesn't want to do that either.
We are also lucky because
we have been able to tell three of my girlfriends and their partners/husbands
and they are not bothered about it at all. One couple in particular who we
go on holiday with don't mind if he crossdresses. We have also told his brother
and his wife and my brother and his wife with no adverse reaction at all.
We haven't told his parents or my Mum (they are both in their 80's so it
might be a bit of a shock).
Don't worry about bisexuality.
In 99% of cases TV's are completely heterosexual and this is the case with
my husband. You usually find that they are very loyal men, especially when
they find that you are able to accept their crossdressing. When my husband
looks at other women it is usually the outfit they are wearing, not the woman.
As time has gone on
I have bought him many outfits and accessories (it is a shame we can't share
the clothes as I am a larger size - which is the only thing that bugs me
really as he is a perfect size 12). We do, however, share jewellery, handbags,
shoes and so on. It is also very handy when you run out of your favourite
tights as he always has a spare pair!!.
There is a book called "Geraldine
- for the love of a transvestite" which is a true story by Monica Jay.
It was made into a film starring Julie Walters and Adrian Pasdar, and it
is out on video and DVD, called "Just
like a Woman". I am sure that you would both enjoy the film.
Here is one system you
might try:
Use a card with a smiley
face on one side, and a frown on the other. Or it could be a red spot and
a green spot, or whatever you like. Display it somewhere prominent, like
on the bedroom door. No-one but you and he will know, that green means it
is OK to dress, and red means you want your man back today. Don't tell him
when the days are, then you can do as you feel at the time! Use red when
you want him to take you out, or are feeling tetchy because it's that time,
or the kids or work have given you grief.
Make sure you go out
on some of the green days with friends or family, so he doesn't assume he
is the only focus of your attention. If he can't compromise and sulks, tell
him that is what a little boy does, not a woman. Don't give in, and on some
days (red or green), wear something really special and feminine for bed.
Say "If you are so feminine too, you will like being submissive to me",
and take the lead. Tell him you may now buy him female things, but only to
reward good behaviour (don't specify what that is, he knows already).
I hope you are finding
my advice at the "Ladylike" website useful. If there is anything
you want me to deal with there, I will be happy to do so as best as I can.
It is revised whenever I get time. I don't take crossdressing lightly, but
I think one has to make a web site light-hearted in order to get anyone to
read it! Actually, it is mainly to try to help relieve the stress and shock
that inevitably you may be feeling. Do please go to my website again (at
the very bottom of this mail) to make sure you have found answers to all
of your questions, and if not, do come back to me.
I hope some of this
will help, and I wish you a long and happy relationship. You do have a strong
character, or you wouldn't be writing to me, so well done for doing that.
Do please let me know how you get on, and remember, women are the strong
sex emotionally, so no crying - it is him that is a silly big girl's blouse!
Best Wishes from Chloe
Springfield "LADYLIKE":
Advice for Women with Crossdressing Partners _________________________________________________________________
Subject: Re: Chloe_please_help_2! Date:
10 October 2001 15:28
Hi Chloe
Thank you very much for your reply to
my email message. Your kindness, thoughts and comments are just what I need
at the moment in order to to accept my husband crossdressing.
I still have a few more questions which
have arisen in the last couple of days but before asking them you stated
in your last email the following...
"The first time I saw my husband
dressed was before we were married and we had planned an evening especially
for that. When it actually came to it he was more nervous than I was, and
I didn't find it too bad, but definitely thought I could help him to look
better. Now - about seven years on from that (we have been married for five
of those years) I help him with outfits and give him advice on how to look.
As far as relating to him when he is dressed I talk to him in exactly the
same way and treat him the same. The only thing I wouldn't want to do is
make love while he is dressed, though many women like to, and it isn't a
problem because he doesn't want to do that either."
1. When you planned for your husband
to crossdress was it mutual? How did it happen? Was it the first time for
him? What was the reason?
2. How do you help him with his outfits?
Is it by shopping together or just helping him dress, coordinate his dresses
and selection of color etc and makeup application?
3. I have not made love either with
my husband crossdress although the thought has cross my mind? You did say
many women have done this so would it be strange or kinky to make love to
him while he is dress up as a woman and wearing makep?
I have been working hard to come to
grips and understand his desire to crossdress and I thank you for your thoughts
and the reminder about your website.
The last few days have been very testing
for me and before asking for help with s couple of questions I believe I
should at least let you know what has happen.
Usually on Sunday's we sleep in but
my husband got up earlier without me noticing until he woke me up before
leaving to go shopping at the Mall. He was all dressed up in a floral knee
length wraparound dress, graphite pantyhose, high heels, wig, makeup and
nail polish. He kissed me and said don't worry I just need to get out for
a few hours. What could I do and say? He was gone for about three hours but
when he got home, he presented me with a bunch of flowers, some chocolates
and a beautiful soft polyester fabric halter dress. Definitely I was stunned
and the gesture was wonderful. I did notice his femininity was running high
and in general his feminine ways were very expressive.
4. Does this happen with CD's alot that
they express their femininty while dressed up?
Well all that afternoon he tried on
a few different outfits and repainted his nails with one of my nail polishes.
I gave in on this one. We did have a long talk about what you suggested in
your email and I managed to get agreement that if I did not feel comfortable
on any day for my husband to dress as a woman he would respect my wishes
and not do so. Yes, a win for the ladies and sanity for me.
My husband has joined a CD/TV club in
the neighbouring town and every second Monday night he goes off to the meeting
as he calls them. Wives can also attend but I am still yet to go and probably
will one day. Lets see. Anyway two of his CD friends dropped in last Monday
night to pick him up for the meeting and I was able to meet both of them,
Tassy and Michelle. One was married with three children and the other had
a girlfriend. They both seem nice and well looked quite stunning in their
dresses, hosiery, heels and makeup. Tassy actually swapped his shoes for
a pair of my husbands new 5 inch black open toe strappy high heels. It seem
like a try before you buy job and I thought to myself that's what my girlfriends
and I use to do years ago. Deja vu!! On their return they once again popped
in for a coffee and of course Tassy swapped the shoes. So with these two
men and my hubby all frocked up we sat around having coffee in the living
room chatting like four girlfriends over the durability of pantyhose, long
lasting lipsticks and what to carry in our handbags.
5. I am confuse that men would discuss
feminine issues even when crossdresses? Is that true? Or has my hubby got
tied up in some real feminine guys?
6. How feminine will men become? Is
is a quest or some equality fight?
I did get a little concern when in one
instance my husband was sitting crosslegged, his dress positioned showing
some leg and twirling his high heel on his toe in a real display of feminity
than asking Tassy for his handbag. Once receiving it he than got out his
lipstick and compact, than proceeded to apply some powder to his checks and
nose, and lipstick to his lips. As he put them back in his handbag he tossed
his hair back and said "The joys of being a woman, wearing makeup and
expressing one's femininity."
7. What do you read into his remarks
here? Does he want to become a woman? I have heard many more men today want
to become women and have the sex change operation.
Once again I do thank you and really
appreciate your help and support via the website and your emails. It is good
to have another woman who has experienced and still experiencing her husbands
crossdressing and femininity to share her thoughts.
Keep up the good work Chloe as you educate
more women to understand why their husbands and men are crossdressing and
wearing their dresses.
Warmest regards Tanya
_________________________________________________________________
From: Chloe Springfield
Subject: Re: Chloe_please_help_2! Date: 13 October 2001 22:13
Dear Tanya,
Glad I could help a
bit!
Time, unfortunately
doesn't always allow me to answer you as well as I would like. However I
will try to deal with each question briefly.
1. I suppose it was
mutual, yes. I was curious and a little apprehensive, but I knew he was the
one at a disadvantage, as he was seeking my understanding and approval. He
had been dressing for years, but his former wife disapproved, so it was a
big relief to him that I didn't mind. I had known him for years and we became
close friends purely because they gradually drifted apart. His job had moved
to another part of the country and he had long commuting to do. Eventually
we got together and soon he felt able to tell me all. I wanted to make him
look as good as he could, because I didn't want either of us to be embarrassed
or worried about him going out in public. Lots of transvestites don't go
out in public because they are afraid of how people will react, but if they
look good, either people don't notice, or most are too busy going about their
own business to really care. If you had lunch in a restaurant and a circus
clown sat next to you, you wouldn't be able to help staring at his heavy
makeup, red nose, huge trousers and shoes. But if it was a man who looked
like a woman, you'd probably think, "That's a man, or else an ugly woman",
and get on with your lunch.
2. My husband has the
confidence to shop for himself, which a lot of TVs don't. He is quite good
really, he knows more than most about co-ordination of clothes and makeup,
I am quite envious sometimes. He tends to try to look too young and glamorous
for his age sometimes though, making up for a lost female youth perhaps,
so I especially help him choose what is best for daytime. TVs don't naturally
have the right shape to look good in trousers, so I get him women's business
suits or feminine outfits which are a touch pretty, but aren't too girly
either. I also get him shoes he can walk in!
3. It is not kinky at
all to make love while cross-dressed, it is just my preference not to. Several
ladies have written saying they find it very exciting. When you think of
the vast numbers who like whipping, tying up their partner or urinating on
them (which seems repulsive to me!), I can't see that cross-dressing can
be in the same kinky league! Even if your husband liked to wear the all-enveloping
Muslim women's outfits (I think not)!
4. I am a little surprised
that your husband went to the Mall dressed without warning you. I would have
thought he would have been a little careful around you if you are feeling
fragile right now. However his heart is clearly in the right place as he
bought you several things. I think this experience can bring you closer together,
and shows that part of him does inded think like a woman. It does depend
on the individual whether they have a "different personality" when
crossdressed or not. However it does seem to be quite common for them one
they get into "female mode" to be softer and more respectful of
real women.
5. I am so glad that
you have come to an agreement as I suggested, so that he does not dress on
a day when you don't want it. This makes it so much easier and more comfortable
for you, well done. Even better that he has joined a club where in practice
he can work off a lot of his former frustration, and discuss feminine issues
without his male history muting it as inappropriate. At the same time you
get to meet a few others like him, without necessarily needing to go with
him to the club. You have seen they can be as nice as any real woman, and
not all of them (only a few!) look and behave like extras from Planet of
the Apes!
6. Who can say whether
crossdressing is an equality fight? I think perhaps a little, and there's
nothing wrong in equality. But as I say, women will always want to look different
from men, so though a few might look androgynous, there will always be those
who want to look like the "other" stereotype.
7. No, don't read too
much into him expressing himself as "feminine", or his fantasy
that being a woman is all wonderful. It is only a tiny minority who have
a sex-change, and I'm quite sure that we only hear more about such operations
because they are now more publicised and possible, not because the actual
need for them is increasing. Transvestites and transsexuals are distinct
types, it's not a question of people progressing from one to the other.
Hope you feel more reassured.
Love from Chloe "LADYLIKE":
Advice for Women with Crossdressing Partners _________________________________________________________________
To: Chloe Springfield Subject: Chloe_please_help3!
Date: 07 November 2001 13:51
Hi Chloe
Once
again thanks for your email last month. Since than a few interesting things
have developed with my husband and our relationship.
My husband has been going to the CD/TV
meetings on a regular basis and this has made me a little curious. In fact
one event a week or so ago prompted me to action and also to ask to attend
one of the meetings to check it out.
I came home from work a little earlier
than normal on the night that my husband gets ready and goes off to the CD/TV
meeting. On arriving home I found three other men (women?? by the time I
saw them) all finishing off their makeup application, nail polish and stepping
into high heels. The loungeroom was littered with spare pairs of stockings,
nylons, tights, dresses, skirts, high heels, handbags, wigs, makeup kits
and perfume bottles. Believe me Chloe these guys were so stunning and elegant
looking it was just amazing. One of them was actually a trained makeup artist
and was also in retail. My husband was just so elegant and feminine in a
long red and black chiffon evening dress with a halter neckline, sheer black
tights, stilettoe's and the makeup to complement. Talk about a makeover.
The event was a special dinner for seven
new members who had joined the club in October. The femininity in this room
was just amazing and it really hit home to me that these guys and my hubby
just love this crossdressing and being women for a while.
Q1). From your experience is this the
case that a group of men crossdressing can be like women? Is this okay and
healthy? Should I worry about this?
Well, as they all departed for the girls
night out my husband caught me and said sorry and said he didn't expect me
home so early and said we would have been gone. With this elegant lady standing
in front of me what could I say. I said don't be silly you gorgeous looking
woman go and have a good time. WIth a kiss to the side of his face so not
to disturb his lipstick and a pat on his dress around his bottom I than said
I will be accompanying you to next weeks meeting.
Q2). Chloe was that a good move to say
I would come to the next CD meeting with my husband? Is giving him praise
etc giving in to his crossdressing? Going to the club meeting to check outthe
scene is this also giving in to him?
Q3). What do you think of the other
men coming around and changing before going out?
Q4). Does it seem my husband is getting
to heavy into this crossdressing and not asking me for consent?
Q5). How have you handled the fact that
one half of me says hey this crossdressing by my husband is not to bad, well
lets make peace and let he do it and the other half wants him to stop it?
Looking forward to your great comments.
Lady coming to terms with her hubby's
dressing.
Warm regards and hugs Tanya
_________________________________________________________________
From: Chloe Springfield
Subject: Re: Chloe_please_help3! Date: 13 November 2001 22:24
Hi Tanya,
Lovely to hear from
you again with the latest news.
Whereas a group of men
dressed as women together may not be exactly like women, they certainly are
a lot more like us than usual, which is no bad thing!
1) You ask if this is
healthy, well I never heard of anyone becoming ill by it! Seriously, though,
I can't see any problem, if it makes them happy, then why not. I think men
fall into a more female mode when crossdressed, and then having come to the
end of the evening, carry forward happy feelings into their frustrating regular
male lives next day. I think too that because they feel emotion in a feminine
way, they understand the vulnerability not only of real women, but of those
who are new club members, who they want to help.
2) It is good to go
with him to a meeting or two, it's the only way to see what it's really like
and maybe meet other wives. Far from giving in to him, you are free to check
up on him if you want. You are simply sharing another part of his/her life,
and need only do so as far as you want to. By praising him, you are building
his loyalty and love to you, and he will want to respect your wishes, when
you tell him would rather he didn't wear a halter-neck dress today!
3) It is easy to overlook
the fact that the other men may have had no choice but to change away from
their homes. Maybe they either haven't admitted the truth to their wives,
or feel more confident changing in the company of understanding people, than
perhaps leaving home under the stony glare of neighbours, and braving the
uncertain reaction of a minority of the public.
4) Your husband loves
crossdressing, but he still puts you first by "protecting" you
from his friends, trying to have left before you appear, just in case one
of them should be embarrassing. In effect he is constantly asking for your
consent, and indeed approval. He won't expect or require it every day though,
often he will just be his ordinary old self.
5) This probably requires
a whole book to answer! One can delve too deeply into why, how and so on.
I suppose I handle it by saying to myself he is still the same person I married,
he hasn't changed, but just is. I think it depends on the individual to what
extent there are two different sides of a personality. Physically he is male,
so whether dressed as my husband or sister, he/she is my closest friend either
way. I think one measure of a good woman is whether she behaves as a lady.
Similarly I know that my husband is a gentleman, and so in female mode, I
can totally trust him. I know he will be ladylike.
Your husband is lucky
to know someone who is a makeup artist, but more so of course, he is lucky
to have you. I'm sure he knows this and appreciates you even more now.
Love from Chloe "LADYLIKE":
Advice for Women with Crossdressing Partners _________________________________________________________________
To: Chloe Springfield Subject: Chloe_please_help4!
Date: 21 November 2001 16:04
Hi Chloe
Once again thanks for the last email.
I really do appreciate your quick response and encouragement with my situation.
My husband has now moved his crossdressing
habit to a more regular pattern and I am a little concern with this change
but as you have said to me before try and communicate and unserstand him.
He is now going to work with painted
toe nails, wearing pantyhose under his socks and trousers, panties and a
bra under his shirt minus the padding.
Q) I do not think this is a good idea
but I cannot change his approach.. Is this common and How should I approach
this recent happening?
Q) He wants to crossdress each night
after work? Should I let him?
The strain of this is beginning to show
on me where I am beginning to not groom and dress myself as feminine as I
use to.
Q) What future harm can this be for
me?
Q) The club he has join organises weekends
away and my husband is talking about going away now with the club. My understanding
is that they go to another city and dress up all weekend as a woman, experimenting
with fashion, makeup and being feminine. How harmful is this? It seems it
is becoming a way of life with him?
I have notice two of his new friends
from the club when they are all dress up to the nines they becoming very
feely, touchy and close. Could my husband be developing gay tendencies around
these guys or women?? I am confused, please help with your comments here.
This week I have cried two nights and
not sure what to do.
Q) Should I tell my sister about all
this. Perhaps she can give some wisdom as her girlfriend's husband crossdressers
and she has heard a loyt about them.
Apreciate your concern Regards and
many hugs Tanya
_________________________________________________________________
From: Chloe Springfield
Subject: Re: Chloe_please_help4! Date: 25 November 2001 14:57
Dear Tanya
Thank you again for
your interesting questions. I hope I am some encouragement and help for you.
It sounds like your
husband, having (rightly) been given permission to indulge his feminine side,
is now forgetting that he still has to put you first, and offer you the full
respect you deserve.
The
pattern of his crossdressing will settle down. I think he is asserting his
(masculine!) need to think he dominates your relationship, and kicking back
against possible previous repression. It should not be necessary for him
to wear feminine things under his clothes to work, if he has the opportunities
now to dress that we have talked about. I think that will cease in time.
Having said that, it is not doing you any harm, as long as no-one there knows,
and I can understand that if he paints his toenails, he may not want to keep
removing and replacing the colour, every time he has to go to work. Maybe
you could suggest a subtle colour to make it less noticeable (say that it's
more feminine to be delicate and not too obvious, he can paint over and remove
for parties). Let him wear girly panties but claim that he shouldn't wear
a bra to work because "people can clearly see its outline" or some
such excuse.
I don't think you should
let him crossdress every night. Once or twice a week by all means, but no
more. You are entitled to have your husband back regularly and frequently. "She" is
fine, but you must tell him clearly that you want to see "him" often,
and have a right to do so. You have been reasonable, now you must agree between
yourself, exactly how HE is going to be reasonable. If he thinks he can browbeat
you to only live his way, you will feel depressed because you aren't being
heard.
I am sure you look just
fine even without any beauty help, don't let there be competition between
you. The future harm for you may be the loss of your self-worth, and that
is down to him to bolster. In his desire to look great himself, he probably
forgets to compliment and appreciate you enough. He can only realise what
a good wife he has, if he is constantly aware of how fortunate he is to be
able to go up to the limits YOU set him.
The club weekends away
will be very helpful for him, and you need not worry about that. Again, everything
in proportion, I would expect him to go maybe twice a year, no more. It will
always be a part of his life which he will thoroughly enjoy, but only a part
- he has to come to terms with that, and value his life as a man. You cannot
do that for him, but you can certainly warn him that the more touchy-feely
female role carries with it the aura of female sexual vulnerability, which
can put him at increased risk both of attack, and advances from men, some
of whom (however dressed) will not be straight. Tell him you trust him, but
to be on his guard (possibly against a specific person?). Tell him very clearly
(half-joking) that if he does ever do anything, then he won't get to do anything
again with you!
As your sister has some
indirect experience with crossdressing, yes please tell her, I'm sure it
will give you more support and can compare notes. I would be interested to
know what she says, and how her girlfriend has coped with her husband, do
please let me know if you get the chance. Who knows, maybe her girlfriend
would like my website address (please note slightly changed to that below).
By the way, I have been
thinking about quoting some letters and replies on my website, to give some
idea of the typical woman-to-woman reply that wives might expect. May I use
yours (no address or full name of course)?
Have a little chocolate
right now, they say it really does give you a feeling of wellbeing!
Hugs, love from Chloe "LADYLIKE":
Advice for Women with Crossdressing Partners ________________________________________________________________
To: Chloe Springfield Subject: Re:
Chloe_please_help4! Date: 01 December 2001 02:30
Hello Chloe
Thank you for the last response to my
email. I have been out of town with work assisting and opening up another
store for womens accessories. You can use my letters for your website if
you believe it will help other women in my situation with their husbands
crossdressing.
Thank you once again and I will be in
touch.
Warm regards Tanya
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